How to Become Unavailable to Bullies
- Jennifer Lasell
- Nov 4, 2025
- 2 min read

There comes a point when “no” stops being a word and becomes an energy.
That’s the moment a bully — whether physical, emotional, or psychic — starts to lose power over you.
A bully doesn’t always wear a sneer. Sometimes they smile while they drain you. Sometimes they hide behind helpfulness, or “spiritual” authority, or their own fear of losing control. But underneath it all, a bully is terrified of one thing: power they can’t manipulate.
And that’s what your calm does — it unnerves them. It’s proof that their vibration can’t reach you anymore.
But calm alone isn’t enough. You have to withdraw permission — not by force, but by frequency. Here’s how.
1. Ground Like You Mean It
Drop your grounding cord deep into the Earth’s crystalline center.
Not to escape — but to root.
Feel gravity claim you. The moment you ground, you step out of their reality and back into your own.
You are not reacting anymore. You are inhabiting.
2. Call Your Energy Home
Say softly in your mind:
“I call back all of my energy from anyone and anything that does not honor me.”
Watch as your energy returns — golden light spiraling toward you, joyful to be home.
Every thread of it is your essence, your wholeness, your clarity.
3. Fill Up Your Space
Above your head glows a golden sun — the Source that loves you completely and always tells you the truth.
Let its light pour through your crown, filling every cell, every layer of your aura.
When you’re full of your own light, there’s no vacancy for chaos to rent.
4. Seal Your Field in Light
Place a single rose at the edge of your aura.
Tell it,
“Only energies that match my highest good may enter.”
Watch it spin clockwise, sealing your field with radiant peace.
It’s not a wall. It’s resonance.
5. Stay Neutral
Bullies thrive on polarity — push and pull, victim and controller.
Neutrality isn’t passive. It’s mastery.
When you stay neutral, their energy can’t attach. It just slides off into the nothingness it came from.
6. Step Out of Their Story
If you still feel their energy trying to hook you, place your hand over your heart and whisper:
“I am not in their story.”
That’s all it takes.
Their script dissolves.
You’re back in your own.
The Real Secret
Psychic tools are powerful, but they’re not about hiding from the world.
They’re about remembering who you are in it.
A bully’s control ends the moment you stop identifying with the frequency they live in.
You don’t have to protect yourself from what you’ve already outgrown.
You simply become unavailable.




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